Random quotes for cheeky monday...

Dear Diary,

Signed off for now

LOLA

Are you a YES person?

Dear Diary,

Heard over the radio about the "Are you a Yes person?" issue.  So are you a YES person? Am I a YES person?

Generally, we always have bad impression  on this type of person. They are believed to be gutless, no backbone and afraid to stand up for their belief or rights and defined as "will try to please others in order to have personal gain".  They also can be described as a person of unquestioning obedience, either as a follower or a pushover.  

But that's the definition of a traditional "Yes Person" who sits quietly and always agrees with others.  Now the new generation of "Yes Person" celebrates life to the fullest and takes advantage of every opportunity by always saying yes for something challenging or stimulating.

Say yes to everything, say yes to a new language, say yes to a new skill, say yes to spread the wings, say yes to finds a true love.  The secret of becoming a Yes Person is simply stop hiding behind own excuses.  Instead of saying 'no', just say 'yes' and go out with friends and have time of your life because when you grow old, you will fret all the things you didn't do and remember all the things you did.

 So from now on, I want you to become a Yes Person and say yes to everything in life .  I promise you it will not only change your view on life, but also bring you out on adventures you never thought would become true.

I am a YES WOMAN! and proud of it!!!!!

Signed off for now

LOLA

Sacrifice or compromise?

Dear Diary,

Would you do anything for your love ones? Would you sacrifice everything just for their happiness or well-being? If yes, to what extend? 

Do you have expectations in return for your partner after you make the a big sacrifice?  And will you be upset if your partner doesn't appreciate you for your sacrifice or doesn't automatically assume the next one is on him?

These questions were playing in my head lately.  I was told that sacrificing your own happiness for the happiness of the one you love is by far the truest type of love.  But for me, love needs not only sacrifice, but also with the giving comes the taking. It goes both ways, but love also needs trust, pride, humanity, and lots and lots of patience.  Love is undefinable and there is no manual.  Sometimes it takes all you have got to give. 

In love relationship, it involved both sacrifices and compromises.  Okay, what is the different between the two?  To sacrifice is to give up something precious in order to gain or maintain something i.e. a valuable relationship or some other worthy cause.  On the other side, to compromise is to give up the pursuit of a better prospect in order not to risk an existing situation, even if it somewhat worse that the prospect you give up.  

So, darling please sacrifice something for me so that I know that you love me, and in return I will stop considering you as the major compromise of my life....

"Eeerrrrmmm Honey, could you catch a grenade or two for me, please?" ;)

Signed for now,

LOLA

Happy weekend everyone...

Dear Diary,

Wish you

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A smile is a curve that sets everything straight....

Happy weekend, my sweet friends.


Signed off for now
LOLA

p/s: advance post

Happy cheerful Friday.....

Dear Diary,

Here some funny poems to cheer up your day!

I wrote your name on sand, it got washed
I wrote your name in air, it was blown away
Then
I wrote your name in my heart and I got heart attack.

God saw me hungry, he created pizza
He saw me thirsty, he created Pepsi
He saw me in dark, he created light
He saw me without problems, he created you!

Twinkle twinkle little star
You should know what you are
And once you know what you are
Mental hospital is not so far

The rain makes all things beautiful
The grass and flowers too
If rain makes all things beautiful
Why doesn;t it rain on you?

Roses are red, violets are blue
Monkeys like you should be kept in zoo
Don't feel so angry you will find me there too
Not in cage but laughing at you.

When your life is in the darkness
Pray to God ask him to free you from darkness
And if after you pray and you are still in darkness,
Please pay your ELECTRICAL BILL!

Signed off for now
LOLA

Date night......

Dear Diary,

I reached the office slight late than usual.  This morning my stalker was taking his sweet time loitering in front of my house.  I'm so perplexed.  What does he really wants, really?  Why is he so obsessed with me?  

Nevertheless, the incident will not make me upset or annoyed, at least for today. As a matter of fact, nothing can put a damper on mood now.  Because, I have a dinner date with him tonight.  Yeahhhh for me!

So to BLY, this is for you:

I remember last night,

About our little fight,

It was just for a simple reason,

Nothing to do with faith or treason,

It was as to who loved more,

Me or you, and were so bored.

I was there cuddled in your arms,

Kissing every second on your palm.

You said that you loved me a lot,

But I just said, no you did not,

For I love you more,

Now don't get sore,

Sit up and look into my eyes,

You can see that, I wear no disguise,

For my is true,

And it only for you.....

Every tear that I shed,

As I cuddle close to you in the bed,

Is to say that dear you are my life and soul,

Just your gentle hug make me whole,

Please dear don't think of leaving me ever,

I will be able to smile, never.

Then I hold you really tight,

And just say the truth will all my might

That I love you,

And I will always, be there for you.....

~See you tonight ;)

And to everyone else, 
The only thing that will make you happy is being happy with who you are, and not who people think you are....'
Happy Thursday!

Signed off for now
LOLA

Aku yang tersakiti..................

Dear Diary,

Right now to I'm listening Judika "Aku yang tersakiti".  I always listen to that song whenever I feel down or sad.  I just can't sleep last night thinking about the decision I about to make, the decision that I have to make for the sake of us both.  

This morning I have finally made up my mind.  I have to wave my white flag to avoid further damage and withdraw from this relationship.  "Two is company, three is crowd", don't you think so?  

I believe I have not been lucky in love.  Yes, I have been blessed with some amazing moments with him, but somehow I found out that he didn't want what I wanted, he didn't feel what I felt, and most importantly is he didn't want to walk beside me into a future together.  He still stuck with his past life. 

Falling in love can be a slippery slope, no matter how many protective barriers we have built.  It can ease in like a light a mist that settles itself beautifully over your life, or it can blindside you.

Love is elastic. It can stretch and retract and change shape constantly.  One day you are over the moon, the next disillusioned. But remember elastic can break.  You can re-tie it, but there is now a knot.  Suddenly that perception is a little bit tainted. Sometimes we can recover from this, sometimes we just can't.

Loyalty and commitment teach us that we are not to walk away from people that we love.  Love without expectation.  But if your relationship is unbalanced and one of them is hurting, how much is enough? How many pieces are supposed to break and how damaged can we allow ourselves to get before we realise that this type of love isn't healthy?

Love and relationship require work and responsibility.  We have to learn when to stretch and when to break.  I feel happy but yet envious for those who have been blessed to find a romantic love that is equally shared.  Don't waste it!

Right now I felt the pain, and hope to recover from it.  I wish my heart to heal even though in a slow process.   There are things that I have learned about this relationship:

• If there is a feeling better than love, I have not felt it.
• Enjoy the good times together, be grateful of the memories because everything happens for a reason.
• Stay out of the future and in the moment.
• Protect both of our hearts, whether the love is still there or not.
• I'm broken, so beaten down and no energy left.  
• If the relationship starts to crumble, know when to put it down and let it be.
• Some things just won't work, no matter how badly I wish they would.  
• It is okay to walk away from something that hurts me. Because sometimes walking away is the only way to win.
• Not everyone, and not everything, is meant to stay.
• Sometimes you just need do your best and surrender the rest.
• What is right for me may be wrong for others, and vice versa.
• I am in control of one person; myself.
• Some people will refuse to accept you for who you are.
• Relationship can only exist on a steady foundation of truth.
• You can make decisions; or you can make excuses.

 "Love does not obey our expectations; it obeys our intentions".......

Signed off for now

LOLA