Feel good Wednesday....

Dear Diary,

Just remember...
You define your own life! Don't let other people write the script for you.......

Signed off for now
LOLA

Do I know you?

Dear Diary,

How well do you know your other half?  

Do you know his/her strengths and weaknesses? 

How about his/her favourites and dislike?  

Do you know his/her blood type?

How about his/her favourite meals?

Do you know his/her annoying habits?

What 'hurt' the past has he/she struggled most to overcome?

Who is his/her bestfriends?

What is his/her favourite way to wind down after a stressful day?

You may think that the longer you and your partner have been together, the better you know about him/her.  But you'd be wrong.  Me for example, me and my partner have been together for three years and I really thought I knew everything about him, I can even finish his sentence, I can predict his next reaction, so I thought.  Least I knew he had kept a huge secret that he kept for so long that almost crushed our relationship. Well, I'm not going to dwell about it anymore, let bygone be bygone.  We have back together again and going to proceed our lives together in "I DO" mode very soon.

But back in my mind, I keep asking myself  on how well both of us really know each other.  I believe both of us should take more time or extra effort to communicate.  With that, we can learn so much about us,  especially if we have spent a lifetime making memories together.  Because there is always room to learn something new about the person you love. On top of it, getting to know each other is one of the funnest parts about a relationship. It's fresh! It's new! It's exciting!  To be in a healthy, happy relationship, we should know a great deal about your other half.  Because you cannot fully love or appreciate somebody without knowing them, right?

 

Listen, no just hear,

Communicate, no just talk,

Hold, not just touch,

See what inside his/her heart, not just look the outside,

Pay attention, 

Never take things for granted......

Signed for now,

LOLA