Dear Diary,
Everybody has his/her own habits, albeit good or bad. I must confessed that I have several bad habits such as procrastination, overspending, but the worse is love to rummage people belongings or secrets. When I was young I loved to rummage my sisters belongings, searched for secrets that I can use against them. Don't get me wrong! I love my sisters dearly and there is no way I would do any harm onto them. I only use it on them for certain leverage like need to borrow their pretty awesome clothes, to join their outing/parties with friends, etc.
Now, I am trying to refrain or at least minimize myself from doing it anymore. However, I still secretly rummage my children things like handphone or laptop for information. Well, as a mother to two teenage sons, I believe it is my duty to ensure that they don't do something that will jeopardize their life or future.
Other than that, I will only rummage for secrets when I feel vulnerable or threaten or even doubtful. When I put my 100% confidence or trust to others, I expect them to do the same to me and will not by any chance betray my trust or confidence.
I might love someone but it doesn't mean I trust the person until he has proved his innocent. Besides, this is how I survive all these times, good and bad. Because I will never tell him directly on how I feel, hence he has to read between the lines.
Hence, my advice is if you are thinking putting other women's photos (especially with sexy pose) on your wallet or laptop and your other half finds out, please be prepared with a more concrete reason other that the pretext that he/she just someone that you vaguely knew or just a friend. Come on! We are not in "Too Phat" era anymore. And don't brush it off and pretend it never happen..... Have you ever heard "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" before?
Then again, I'm just saying......
Signed off for now
LOLA
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