Dear Diary,
Have you been the dreaded rebound guy? The first poor guy who strikes her interest after she recently ended a long-term relationship. Some of us have been into that situation and I believe that it was suck. A bit of advice to my male friends, be very cautious when having relationship with freshly broken up woman. If you are not looking for a serious relationship then you have nothing to worry. Because she is actually trick herself (well it's not really her faulty thoroughly) into thinking she is falling in love again and has forgotten all about the last guy.
Why did she fall for you at the first place? It is easy. Because you were there for her when she most need someone. You helped her gain her self-esteem back. You were always there for her, make her laugh and forget her problems. But what happens when she gets over her broken heart and ready to take over the world or try the water out, or worse still, decides it's time to give her ex another chance because when it comes down to it, she never really got over him.
Then, you just realised that you were just the rebound guy. Don't be too hard on yourself or her (it was destined to occur). What is worse than being that guy? Knowing it was bound to happen (gut feeling) but still trying to make it work.
So realise this, unless you want to play basketball that you don't ever want to be the "rebound guy".
Signed off for now
LOLA
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