Signs he feels NO DESIRE to be committed:
- Unlikely to express to maintain the relationship.. Even when pressured, he will always find ways to avoid talking about personal commitment.
- Thinks other relationships are much better and other couples are more happier.
- Start complaining on lack of freedom to say and do what he wants to (and blames everything on you).
- Hardly follows up on promises - even on very very small things.
- Less inclined to actively work to develop a feeling of togetherness (does not feel there is need to).
- More inclined to engage in opportunistic and even insulting or abusive behaviour. Basically he isn't bothered on how you feel about it).
- Always puts his personal interest above the relationship. You are never my No. 1 attitude.
- More inclined to actively and openly seek distractions outside of the relationship e.g. work, affairs, adult entertainment, addictions, etc.
- Unwilling and dismissive of any requests for emotional openness or closeness, time or effort. No PDA.
- Committed ONLY so long as the external pressure is present or so long as there are "PERSONAL BEFITS" to being in the relationship.
- Will at some point want to end the relationship or intentionally do something to make YOU end it.
If your relationship has all or at least some of the criterias, it's about time for you to re-evaluate your relationship.
Signed off for now.
LOLA
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