What is the meaning of LOVE?
For me:
Love means treating others well....
It all comes down to simple, basic rules of listening, understanding and most important empathising with what is important to your love ones. Once you understanding how treating others in loving way works, your relationship cannot fail because of YOU.
Love means pleasure....
When both of you treat each other well, you delight in each other. Love means pleasure, deep emotional enjoyment of each other.
But please remember, sexual pleasure is only that... it does not create emotional intimacy. You don't have to settle for temporary enjoyment as all you can have (it's not a buffet style). You should go beyond to find the emotional satisfaction that you have always wanted.
Don't waste your time thinking sex is the answer. Learn from what others know. Acceptance and affirmation of oneself and others creates the emotional delight that can be expressed with sex. Remember, make love is better that have sex. Same method but with better feeling...
Love means caring.....
Share your life activities and personal intimate information creates intimacy and emotional connection. Over time, caring grows and your emotional investment in the other deepen, even when all is not "rosy" and pleasurable.
Don't do list
Fear of asking for what you want.
Reacting so defensively when you don't want to do so.
Being critical of your other half or even to yourself.
Attempting to control your partner with jealousy.
Fear of being rejected.
Signed off.
LOLA
Which one is better.. have sex or make love?
ReplyDelete